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There is no easy way or time to find out the loss of a childhood pet. Last night my parents called and my dad told me they had taken Rosie down to the vet and put her to sleep. She wasn’t eating anymore and basically starving herself. She was 21 years old and was a best friend to me.

Two years ago we our dog (Rascal) was also put down. Rosie was the last of my childhood pets still alive. She has been around almost all of my life and I grew up having her around. When my dog Sassy died, this beautiful Kerry Blue Terrier that I sadly witness get hit by a car I will never forget that night. I was very young and sitting in the hall way with my mom. I was worried Sassy wasn’t going to come home and my mom looked at me and said, “Well, you still have your kitty.”

Rosie has always been there for me. Through nights crying about struggles in school to adolescent break ups Rosie was there. I will never forget one night I was crying and she jumped up on the bed and sat next to me and licked me. She and I were really connected. I guess sharing a bedroom together can do that to you.

And this is the thing, I’m really sad and I’m trying really hard to not cry right now as I write this in my favorite coffee shop and I may be really sad but I’m also really happy because I have so many wonderful memories of my kitty cat. We had a blast together and I think I’m so compassionate and such a big animal lover because of my childhood animals so I couldn’t ask for anything more of them.

It’s hard living so far away from home. I miss home so much right now but I don’t if I could have handle being there. I wonder if they put her down on Thursday or Friday last week because I just had the worst energy feeling then and cried for one reason. I wonder if the heart and soul can feel a friend pass away…

Goodbye best friend. I’m not going to say rest in peace, because well first you were a pampered little diva of a cat and got plenty of rest and second I know that were ever you are now you are happy and you are safe.

Love you Rosie.

I will always miss you and you will always be in my heart.

I’m so thankful you were part of my life, especially growing up.

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Friday-Ate out again, more cupcakes, best friends Or lets just call it,”learning to live without sex”

Song of the Day: You Make My Dreams Come True by Hall & Oates

Quotation of the day:

when the time comes
to love yourself well
it takes a good solid month
to stop crying
about everything
you have to let go
-Andrea Gibson

I am so fucking tired…

I went to bed this morning around 6am and then only got about 3 hours of sleep. Then finally got about two more hours late this afternoon. But I’m awake again, writing this blog and eating a cupcake.

My friend Tina is out on a booty call run and will be back shortly.

(didn’t get home till 2am)

Need to pick something out to watch…hmm what to watch…hmm The Iron lady. Yep I’m going to watch the Iron Lady. Such a good movie!

Lots to do this weekend! It’s going to be very busy. Sundays outfit will be awesome! But shit I have to wake up at 4am tomorrow to get ready. But shit! I get to put on a suit. Suits are sexy as all hell. I’m gonna look all kinds of good this weekend.

Ate out again tonight. I needed that in my life.


So I have Cosmo on my twitter and I swear to God every damn day twice a day Cosmo posts up a sex position of the day and I’m like umm Cosmo, when the hell will I be needing this!?! Thanks Cosmo…thanks for reminding me I’m not getting any.

Tonight on Facebook I have seen over 10 different people post about Sadie s Hawkins day. All 10 happen to be men, and all 10 of these men happen be complaining about how women never ask men out. Um ok, I happen to be a women. And as a women (might I add a women that dates often now) I have actually asked a few men out on dates. So surprise men of Facebook! I have asked plenty of men out in my life, but shit how about you ask me out? I have only gone out on about 3 or so dates since August so how about we change that. Because I just get the feeling that most of you just want to have sex with me more then asking me out on a date.

(Ok I know more and more sound like a huge hypocrite. You know with the whole I want someone to ask me out but I talk about how much I miss sex)

Well fuck it. I want to date first, sex after (sometimes)

And to be honest I’m more of a commitment kind of person any ways. I’ve had two long term relationships. One that lasted 2 years and the other 3 years. So I know I’m definitely more of a commitment person, but I’m just learning it’s really hard to find someone who wants that as well, and I means in the terms of they are interested in me and want to see how they feel without seeing me naked within three days of knowing them.

So any ways back to Sadie Hawkins day. Stupid, stupid men who complain that women don’t ask them out. Because here are the reasons to probably why women aren’t asking you out:

  • Reason number 1-She’s just not that into you
  • Reason number 2-She doesn’t know you like her, because you’re playing games and shit and not just being forward with her
  • Reason number 3-You’re in the friend zone
  • Reason number 4-She wants you to ask her out
  • Reason number 5-She may be really shy (I’m really shy)
  • Reason 6-Ask her out! You wanna see me naked? Ask me out first. Women go through a lot of trouble to dress up, shave, put on make out so the least you can do is be the one to ask me out.

Think about it men, think really hard…

Because here I am, single, hanging out and available to date.(ok I do talk about cats a lot, and my sexual  desires, and im weird as all shit but still, shit! Stop bitching men and just ask me out. Shit.

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Women are like cats?

So I came across this website today called, “The Real Men project.”

Ok mistake number one, a man wrote it.

Link to article:

Women Are Like Cats

Mistake number two: the picture at the top is a women wearing a purple wig that happens to have cat ears, which not only makes her look like a whore but also crazy as all shit. This picture should not be the one and only true representation of a women that happens to be all about cats.

Mistake number three: author of the advice column states, “’I’ve been married more than once, so I really don’t know that I should be held up as an expert on romance.” (Then why did you write this article??)

Mistake number five: “Nothing here is meant to demean women. I love women. A lot.”  I feel like I don’t need to continue to discuss number five.

Behold mistake number six, “The Call Back.” As a women dating and as a women who is busy and has her own life I’m absolutely sick and tried of being referred to in the terms of take out food. You don’t just go out with me once on a date and then wait for a certain period of time until you want to go out again with me to show your not all about me. If you like what you see, ask me out again, whenever.  I’m not a game/fast food and I would much prefer a man to be forward with me and let me know they are interested in me. I’m 23 years old and I’m tried of dating games, I just want to go out, have a good time and then to let me know you did too or you didn’t.

Mistake number seven: “Get Physical.” What? What?! What is this section??? “Riding a horse, or going for a run, or learning how to dance provides a commonality of experience that is a fundamental building block of intimacy.” Ok the running part is ok, but a horse? Dear Mr. Man author, where did that thought come from?

Mistake number eight (Ok I’m going to copy and paste this whole section): “Read Out Loud.” “It sounds crazy but one of the most romantic things you can do with the object of your affection is read to her. Poetry may be a bit over the top, unless she’s into that kind of thing. But you could get away with reading the phone book and your lady friend will find it intoxicating. But a good novel is probably best. In a pinch just start reading an interesting newspaper article out loud to her and ask her opinion. Engaging her mind and showing that you respect her opinion will always leave a good impression.”-ok the last time someone read to me was my mom and I was seven years old, so no this would not be a turn on at all. I love books, but I don’t want a man to read me a book. I can read my own stuff. Thanks, but no thanks.

Mistake number nine: “Sex is Sex, Making Love is Completely Different” A line from this section: Think of it like roasting a marshmallow. Too close to the flame and that puppy is going to burn up. It takes patience and a steady hand to get it just right.-Yeah that’s exactly what I want you to think of me as when I’m naked. A nice white, hot, thing of sugar on a metal stick and then you have to hold me out onto an open flame to brown me up before you lay me out on graham crackers and chocolate and then stick me in your mouth. Score.

And finally Mistake number ten: “Women Are Like Cats.” “Too many guys treat women like dogs, when really they are most more feline in nature. With a dog, you can pet them whenever you want. A cat can be very affectionate as well, but they will let you know when they would like to be rubbed. At the right time they will purr, arch their backs, and show great satisfaction in physical attention. But you really have to let them make the first move.”-Ok first of all I would like to point out that I was under the assumption that each of these tips would also somehow connect with cats. Like for example the “READ ALOUD” section. Um yeah, like I previous stated I don’t like to be aloud to and neither does my cat. Also I’m come to the realization that because I’m a women, I’m similar to a cat…so I’m a pussy? Cool. LOL. And to make matters even funnier you compare me to another animal “a dog” Then this wonderful article finishes off with the image in my head of a man rubbing my back neck as I arch my back and purr. Yeah try and get that image out of your head.

Thanks Jameselliot for setting the record straight and making me understand why that last guy I had dinner with asked me if I liked riding horses.

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Hump Day

Yes, I have chosen to become an active blogger on Wednesday aka “Hump Day” which is ironic because no one is going to be humping any time soon. I have never been much for words, which is also ironic  because I’m not only a English Major but an English Secondary Education Major. Which means I’m going to be teaching English to the future of America. Along with this, I was never one of those girls in middle school writing my life away within the comfounds of a diary, I guess I was never the Anne Frank type. But recently being single after a three year committed (me being the committed one) relantioship I have become intereted in writing down my thoughts and everything that goes on in my life, because shit happens and I’ve got some pretty crazy ass, funny stories to tell.

So watch out Ex Boyfriends, friends, and cats, I’ve got some awesome stories and I don’t give a fuck telling them anymore.So SUCKS TO SUCK! (But don’t worry I will change names around, so don’t flip a bitch) But it’s time I write down my life. Time to buy me another cat, try to become more of a vegetarian, drink, dance, dye my hair and not give a fuck what people think or say.


NO MORE DATING, JUST GOING TO BUY A CAT (stories of dating, food, friendships, and cats)


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